Is this parental alienation?

Tell me, is it alienation and interference when one parent cries when the children leave to go to their other parent's home, making them feel bad about leaving to go see their other parent?

Is it alienation when one parent complains about being alone if the kids go to their other parent's home so the kids worry and don't want to leave?

Is it alienation when one parent gets upset at the kids if they want to talk to the other parent on the phone or when the other parent calls, leaving them to feel bad and think their mother is mad at them?

Is it alienation when one parent reacts negatively at any indication the children are enjoying their family and time with their other parent?

Is it alienation when one parent does not encourage and facilitate a good relationship between the children and their other loving parent and other family?

Is it interference when one parent ridicules and dismisses the other parent's rules and consequences, giving the child the very real idea that they can do what they want when they want because that parent will excuse everything they do and don't have to listen to their other parent or abide by that parent's household rules like the rest of the kids do?

Is it interference (and pathetic) when one parent enjoys seeing the destruction of a child's relationship with their other parent?

Is it interference and alienation when one parent throws away correspondence from the other parent to the child before said child can read it or deletes emails from the other parent to the child before the child/ren can see them?

Is it interference and alienation when one parent allows (even instigates) and encourages the children to lie to their other parent?

Is it alienating for one parent to exclude the other parent from the child/ren's lives as much as possible?

My thoughts on this topic for the day.