Nevada Senator John Ensign Has Affair - - Big Shocker!

Nevada Senator John Ensign had an affair. His wife says she still loves him. Awwwww...not.

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Emotional Affairs

Some people think emotional affairs can't be considered as cheating and then others would say it would be worse than the physical affair. While both would be devastating (and something I would never forgive my husband for), I think the emotional affair would be worse. I don't have personal experience to base this on with my husband (and I hope my husband never gives me that kind of personal experience because then I'd have to dump his ass) but if my husband felt that emotional connection with another woman, it would cut very, very deep.

How do you know what an emotional affair is? Yahoo Personals has this to say about it:

• 82% of affairs are with someone who was "just a friend".

They give a list of things they believe is an emotional affair and let you know if you've crossed that line. Some of them are:

• Are you checking yourself out in the mirror more or taking extra time with your clothes before you are supposed to see them?
• Are you telling him or her more about your day than you do your partner?
• Does talking to your partner about this person makes you uncomfortable? If you begin to cover up your relationship, better watch yourself.
• Is there increasing sexual tension between you?

How do you know when you are going to cross the line into a physical relationship and you better step back if you don't want to ruin your current relationship:

• When you turn to this person for support rather than a trusted friend or your partner.
• Sensual or suggestive talk (in person, via email, texting, phone).
• When you find yourself putting yourself into situations where you can be alone with them.

If this is you, or you see your partner in this position with another party, and you want to save your relationship, it's time to take steps to fix things.

Unless we are talking about a serial cheater, who are just slugs, I believe cheating is the symptom of a problem in the relationship and not THE problem. Unless you are a serial cheater, people don't just randomly set out to hurt themselves, their partners, or any other people involved. There is a reason they are going outside the relationship to have a need or needs met (I'm not saying it's right but it's reality for many people) so if you want to save the relationship, better find out what problem (or problems) lie between you and fix it.

My way of fixing a "cheating" problem would be to dump his ass but that's not for everybody. I'm just not capable of that level of forgiveness. If my husband felt there was a problem between us and he didn't talk to me about it before cheating, it'd be too late for me.

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Women Get Stupid Over Cheating & Now Face Charges

A few women in Washington thought another woman was having an affair with one of their boyfriends. Their brilliant plan? This past Friday, two of the three pushed her into a car and took her to Border Patrol to try to have her deported.

Did the woman get deported? Of course not.

The stupid women who did this are facing charges for unlawful imprisonment. Sometimes, I am ashamed of my gender.

Women!!! If your man is cheating, deal with HIM. Why do women go after the other woman? She isn't the one in a relationship with you! The man is the one you've placed your faith and trust in and if HE has broken that faith and trust, your beef is with HIM.

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Emotional Cheating - is it REALLY cheating?

Is cheating defined as when your partner looks elsewhere to fulfill his or her physical needs? What about if there is no sexual cheating? What if your significant other is sharing intimate details about his or her life with another person that he or she isn't sharing with you? What if he or she has an emotional, intimate connection with another person? Is that cheating too?

For me, the answer is YES. Most definitely, without a doubt, that is a betrayal on an entirely different level that in many ways would hurt more than physical cheating. Don't get me wrong - I wouldn't be able to stay with my husband if he physically cheated on me either. I am not wired that way to forgive, work it out, etc. It's too deep of a betrayal to me. However, connecting with a woman on an emotional level that we should be sharing would be a huge loss in itself and again, not something I could work out or accept in my marriage.

If my husband were spending time with another woman, confiding private information to another woman about his life - his wants, his needs, his problems, his marriage - things he should be discussing with and confiding in me about but chose to confide in another woman instead, then that would be cheating to me. He wouldn't have to take off one article of clothing. It'd be cheating in my eyes.

What about you?

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